Getting engaged in San Francisco, CA â Sept 2025
The Meet Cute
In 2024, Jess and David both found themselves headed to CancĂșn, Mexico over Labor Day weekend â thanks to a
group trip that would end up changing everything.
Jess had planned her travel with precision⊠until her flight from Charleston to Charlotte was suddenly
cancelled the night before. Cue a last-minute dash to Charlotte to catch her connecting flight, she finally
made it to Mexico. David, meanwhile, was simply proud that he booked a flight from San Francisco to CancĂșn,
and not Cabo. đ
They met the first night at dinner, while sharing in some jokes and light banter. Jess seemed fun, but David
would later joke that she âdefinitely wasnât giving single vibes.â The next day, one of Davidâs friends gave
each of them an encouraging nudge toward the other. Jess brushed it off enjoying some drinks while floating
around the pool, completely unbothered. David, however, took it as a clear green light.
From then on, he turned up the charm to 11. They played games, shared drinks, danced, and David did A LOT of
talking (something Jess quickly learned he excels at). Despite the unpredictable circumstances, they both
realized the other was genuinely interested in seeing where this fun adventure could lead them.
How Would They Do It?
Jess was living in Charleston, David in San Francisco â basically an entire country apart. Dating
long-distance? Yeah⊠not exactly convenient or easy. But somehow they both knew there was something worth
exploring.
A month later, David flew to Charleston for a week, and by the end of the trip, they were âofficial.â Jess
then invited him as her date to her sister Meganâs wedding the following month.
Jess' sister Megan's wedding â Nov 2024
From there, they became pros at cross-country travel. David heading East, Jess heading West, and both going
places in between over the next several months, traveling so much they basically lived at the airport.
Finally in June, the grand plan came together: Jess packed up her life â including her two cats, Sadie and
Leo, who were not exactly thrilled about the idea â and David helped move them West to San Francisco.
Theyâve
all been happily settling into life under one roof ever since.
(top left) David's work end-of-year party â Dec 2024
(top right) Yosemite National Park â May 2025
(bottom) Domaine Carneros in Napa â Nov 2024
The Proposal
Things moved quickly for Jess and David â but always with intention.
From the start, hard conversations were had to ensure they were on the same page. So when June rolled around
and David helped move Jess to California, he took the opportunity to ask her parents for their blessing.
They
didnât just say yes â they were thrilled that their daughter FINALLY found someone who loved her so much and
was willing to accept the responsibility of taking care of her.
Once David had the ring, he enlisted Meganâs help to plan a Labor Day weekend proposal while the family was
in
Atlanta for Battle of the Birds (USC vs VT â Go Hokies đŠ!). The plan was solidâŠ
until it wasnât. The chosen spot was suddenly swarmed by people in cosplay who were attending DragonCon, and
every backup idea kept coming up short. A packed football game, crowded dinners, even the Georgia Aquarium
(all while carrying the ring in his pocket during every opportunity) â the universe simply said, âNot this
weekend.â
When they returned to California David had to start over. And, with a joint vacation to Japan coming up, he
knew one thing for sure: he wouldnât risk carrying the ring around on another trip, let alone an
international
one. So on September 9th, the night before the trip, his new plan went into motion.
Of course, it was one of those chaotic days where both of them were drowning in work, packing, and stress â
they barely had the chance to speak to each other all day. As the sun began to set, David suggested they go
on
a walk to get some fresh air. Jess agreed, but in true Jess-fashion, made David agree that they would be
productive when they got home to finish prepping for the trip. They headed out on their usual route toward
the
boardwalk behind Oracle Park (Go Giants âŸïž!), a spot where The Bay meets the San Francisco city skyline.
There, standing by the quiet dock with San Francisco glittering behind them, David started asking Jess
questions about their upcoming tripâŠthen a few about their life togetherâŠand the final question, âWill you
marry me?â as he got down on one knee. Jess says she immediately blacked out â but eventually said âYes.â
Everything Else
After saying âyes,â David and Jess jetted off to Japan as a newly engaged couple â but apparently, jet lag
is
no match for wedding planning.
Between sushi, sake, and sightseeing, they somehow found themselves making notes, tossing around ideas, and
plotting their dream day. Who knew bullet trains and ramen could be so inspiring?
They couldnât be more excited to bring their family and friends together, celebrate the love theyâve found
in
each other, and share all the laughter, joy, and happy tears with everyone in Temecula in August 2026!
Showing off the ring â Sept 2025